To address this question, we must first turn to Scripture. Many modern preachers claim “The Scriptures don’t provide guidance on this or that, so it’s not sinful.” I firmly disagree. The Scriptures offer clear answers for every topic and scenario relevant to today’s world. Those who say otherwise lack understanding and discernment.
It depends. If you’re a professing believer wearing a modern two-piece bikini or a one-piece showing cleavage, buttocks, or crotch skin, yes, it’s sinful. Look, godly woman are called to dress modestly in public at all times, not just on select occasions or in certain places. Claiming believers wearing a bikinis are appropriate in specific settings lacks as much common sense as claiming adultery is acceptable in certain contexts.
As religious parents, we should dress our children appropriately for the beach or pool, even if the pool is at home since the backyard is exposed to public view. Guests coming to your home should adhere to the same dress code, regardless of whether they are unbelievers, because we are accountable for maintaining holiness in our domain. If we don’t allow unmarried couples to share a bed due to possible fornication, or temptation, the same principle applies to all rules. Again, believers are accountable for everything within the boundaries of their property. It’s not rocket science; it’s simply straightforward.
A couple of months ago, I walked the boardwalk with my wife, my daughter, and her husband-right by the beach. Bikinis? Shrinking fast. And women strutting around with these obvious contours, they seem as if they were competing with each other, like in Olympic event. Hard to ignore. But my conscience, clear, yet perplexed. Do they do it on purpose to gain attention? Only Elohim knows. I’ll be lying if I told you I didn’t notice these obvious lines, honestly, everyone in our party did. But the women kept walking as if it was perfectly natural. Well, after that zoo exhibit, we finally bailed on the boardwalk. No need to keep criticizing what’s obvious—I hate those types of conversations. They’re simply redundant.
That depends on the heart. Looking at someone doesn’t cause sin if lust is absent, even if they’re in a bikini or even naked. But, looking at a fully clothed woman while lusting after her is sinful. Noticing a beautiful woman or her figure is not a sin. However, denying her beauty verbally when you think otherwise is a sin, as it’s a lie. Acknowledging someone’s beauty or figure isn’t sinful unless it’s insincere flattery, which is deceitful. Do you understand?
If Elohim and Yeshua could be defiled simply by glancing at the world—clothed or bare, adultery in full view—then they’d be disqualified as holy judges and firsthand witnesses, tainted by mere observation. But that’s nonsense. Defilement requires a manifested heart turned toward sin; sight alone is neutral. So I reject the church’s extra hedges—those man-made pre-borders layered before El’s true boundaries—and I embrace real liberty. The law isn’t supposed to enslave us as it did the Israelites due to disobedience. It’s supposed to give us freedom by merely obeying it. However, there must be someone able to properly translate. That’s where Yeshua comes in place as a Torah teacher and master. Scripture has Moses openly call Rachel beautiful in his writing, no rebuke;
As the Scriptures say,
“And Lĕ’ah’s eyes were weak, but Raḥĕl was beautiful of form and appearance.”
(Berĕshith Genesis 29:17 TS2009)
Say it with me if you feel no conviction: “Rachel was beautiful!” Who dares condemn? If personal conviction is absent, it’s acceptable, but don’t lust after her beauty. By clearly identifying spiritual boundaries, we eliminate the need for man-made restrictions thus experiencing true, biblical freedom.
Do you now understand?
If you have a pure heart and are at the beach absorbing vitamin D or cooling off, it’s not sinful—it’s enjoyable, especially near a volleyball net with family. Sin requires an ungodly act. The tempter, not the tempted, bears the sin. Remember, Yeshua was tempted yet did not sin.
As the Scriptures say:
“One day he said to his disciples, ‘There will always be temptations to sin, but what sorrow awaits the person who does the tempting!’”
(Luke 17:1)
Notice He didn’t say, “What sorrow awaits the person who is tempted.” We must also remember that Adam and Eve were naked until they sinned. When Elohim walked in the garden, they hid, ashamed of their nakedness due to sin (Genesis 3:8-10). Elohim did not sin by seeing them naked. Sin isn’t tied to nakedness itself. This perspective helps us avoid unrighteous judgment and self-inflicted sins due to judgement based on ignorance or man-made rules.
We can also recall Peter, who removed his tunic (outer garment) while fishing. When Yeshua called from the shore, Peter put it back on before swimming to Him.
As the Scriptures say:
“Then the disciple whom יהושע loved said to Kĕpha, ‘It is the Master!’ When Shim‛on Kĕpha heard it was the Master, he put on his outer garment—for he was stripped—and plunged into the sea.”
Yoḥanan (John) 21:7 TS2009
Scripture records that Peter stripped off his outer garment (tunic) for work, as he was a fisherman. Yeshua saw him from the shore, close enough to call out. Peter was likely shirtless, doubting he was bottomless, as evidenced by this verse concerning priestly garments:
“And make linen trousers for them, to cover their nakedness, reaching from the waist to the thighs.”
(Shemoth Exodus 28:42 TS2009)
Though Peter wasn’t a priest, he likely wore undergarments (trousers)—akin to underwear—while fishing in plain view, yet he did not sin. If he wasn’t wearing trousers, then he was naked, in Plain-view. Yet, we don’t know that for sure. So, for conscience sake, we must assume he was wearing trousers. This answers another question:
Clearly not. At the beach or elsewhere including in the temple, wearing shorts is not sinful. Many modern religions impose extra rules, creating burdens and stumbling blocks with unreasonable demands.
Let’s examine another verse describing attire in Yeshua’s presence:
“And a certain young man followed Him, with a linen cloth thrown around his naked body. When they seized him, he left the linen cloth and fled naked.”
(Marqos Mark 14:51-52 TS2009)
Though Elohim mandated undergarments for priests, this individual, seized by Romans, wore none. Peter, too, was likely in his undergarments in Yeshua’s presence, yet he did not sin.
According to the examples of Scripture, if a woman wears a T-shirt covering her breasts and thigh-high shorts to the beach or elsewhere, no law is broken. If a man wears thigh-high shorts, even without a shirt, as Peter did while fishing, no law is broken, regardless of location. I reject modern theology and its Pharisaical nature, yet my love for its adherents compels me to reach out. A woman’s anatomy is no more important than a man’s; if it’s good enough for a man, it’s good enough for a woman. The only change is the chest area. Elohim does criticize women exposing their cleavage. I will include two translations concerning this verse:
““Strive with your mother, strive, for she is not My wife, nor am I her Husband! Let her put away her whorings from her face, and her adulteries from between her breasts,”
Hoshĕa (Hosea) 2:2 TS2009
““But now bring charges against Israel—your mother— for she is no longer my wife, and I am no longer her husband. Tell her to remove the prostitute’s makeup from her face and the clothing that exposes her breasts.”
Hosea 2:2
Even though Elohim is addressing Israel metaphorically, His character remains consistent regarding immorality. This reminds me of a shirt I purchased for someone, intending to add an “Allegedly” decal. Unbeknownst to me, it was a V-neck. V-necks can still be worn modestly in springtime with a thin, long-sleeved shirt underneath. However, had I realized it was a V-neck, I would not have purchased it. Oh well.
• To remove unnecessary, man-made traditions, focusing solely on Elohim’s commandments.
• To avoid burdening others or judging unrighteously, which deepens our own sin.
• To embrace the spiritual freedom and confidence of salvation described in Scripture, without pretense.
• To pray to Elohim with assurance that He hears and knows us.
Some may read my blog and claim I lack love, compassion, grace, or mercy, or that I consider myself perfect and sinless. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have not reached perfection, yet I will not relax the laws Elohim has enabled me to understand. The spiritual decline of churches stems from corrupt, unbiblical doctrines. Unable to grasp one command, they relax them all. Most modern churches avoid confronting hypocrisy, unqualified leaders, or sin. Their unbiblical approach is to remain silent and kind, allowing people to grow comfortable with perverse religion and reject sound doctrine.
However, Scripture shows Yeshua calling out sin and hypocrisy among the Pharisees, Sadducees, and even the disciples.
As the Scripture says:
“The world cannot hate you, but it hates Me because I testify that its deeds are evil.”
(John 7:7 TS2009)
Women, what we should take from this is the need to dress modestly according to scriptures, not according to moderate religion. So my suggestion to you is, always keep that in the back of your head when you read a certain part of scriptures how the women dressed. Also pay attention if they were rebuked or praised. Always keep seeking; don’t just rely on anyone’s findings, including mine. If you find something exciting in the scriptures, I would love to hear it. Always keep searching for Elohim’s character.
My advice to the men, stop being cowards. Stand your ground in everything you do, listen to people, don’t just brush them off; that is not biblical. That is the way the world acts. Practice faith, but make sure it’s backed up by examples of scriptures. You will live confidently and will have a biblical explanation for anyone who questions you.
But make sure you’re studying the scriptures only; get rid of those purchased books written by strangers. Enough of that. Faith is a serious topic, and we should never outsource the means of our salvation. Accept constructive criticism, sit down whenever possible, whether the time is appropriate or not, and dialogue. We should never assume we know it all but always be willing to test our understanding, for it builds confidence. That’s why I’m always debating and always willing to dialogue. I let people speak, and then share my findings. If I’m being criticized for always sharing my faith, then those who criticize me do not know Elohim nor His Messiah.
And just as important, be kind without sacrificing integrity.
Shalom!